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Tit for tat or silence Unfortunately, there are a whole lot of people who possess an extremely argumentative nature, people who habitually don't appear to be able to accept anything which others say to them, without making a biting, and so very often, most bitter response. And My Friend, when something extremely critical is said to any of these very sensitive people, their response is most likely going to be bitter, and often quite insulting, Of course, my advice in such a situation when someone is constantly putting you down, and is being extremely argumentative, even hostile; is to bite your tongue and simply walk away. That's right, so often these verbal altercations between people can quite easily, and indeed very quickly escalate into actual physical confrontations, which can in the long run end up by one or both parties getting hurt. Now, this to me makes no sense whatsoever. When a person eventually emotionally grows up, that is becomes a Real Adult, which incidentally has nothing whatsoever to do with one's chronological age, they are able to control their emotions, whilst thinking in a calm, logical manner, which assists the person in fully realizing, that it's much better to loose an argument, that to perhaps loose one's life. So, sensible, mature, spiritual, adult people do not give 'Tit for Tat' with everyone who wants to have an argument, a fight with them; instead, they take a deep breath, remain in control of their emotions, and in serene silence walk bravely away! Now, we need to fully understand here today, that it takes a really strong, mature person with high self-esteem who really loves themself, to be able to 'Zip their Lip', remain silent, and thus walk calmly away from an argumentative type of person, thus averting a physical confrontation. People with low self-esteem are in the long run the ones who always appear to be spoiling for a fight, who argue with everyone about literally everything, as they desperately and indeed rather pathetically try to assert themself all the time. Now, if this my Friend, sounds lot like you, you quite definitely need to get some professional assistance so that you can learn to remain silent when confronted with a belligerent person, who is always spoiling for a fight. Yes My Friend, which response do you opt to present to argumentative, belligerent people 'Tit for Tat or Silence'? I sincerely hope that it's the latter. THINK ABOUT IT! Email: dpr@humanri.com Listen to 'Time To Think' the radio program on Star 106.5 FM at 8:55 AM & 6:20PM Wednesday, November 18, 2009